speaking and listening ist very much about teaching and learning these days.. since we’re used to live and experience againstness, it kind of figures.. then, since though our livestyle we have a very low self-esteem, in verbal communication we like to tend to be the teacher.
so it’s no wonder that everyone wants to be the teacher, and no-one the student if not necessary (like in school), which explains the common urge to keep right. so we’re all talking AGAINST each other, although we think we are talking WITH each other.
over the past years i found out by practice, that i can be the best teacher i could ever be by staying student of my students. whtever information i communicate, i (by now) do it with the intention to inspire. and because i KNOW that i will get further inforamtion back from those i gave the brainfood to.
so i finally stopped discussing and arguing and fighting all over the place, and started to exchange information. to me, it has bacome completely irrelevant, WHO gave any information. i see it a little like a pool of information, which i can use as i want. it doesn’t matter who came up with which information, me or someone else.. as it goes for the information: i’m glad it’S TEHRE! eager to be tested on false or true, which is MY job. knowledge comes from obsevation, not from memorizing and believing…
its like in this thread here…
i don’t know any of you, but since i understood why we are all ONE, i see anyone of you as a part of MY perception. whatever i read here is part of my perception. and so it doesn’t matter where anything comes from.. it’s part of ME. we’re all part of each other.. when i read the thread, i read it as if i wrote it all by myself, which is actually the truth, because since we’re all one, i am actually the author as well as the reader. funky stuff, eh? 
its nice to see how more and more people start exchanging on eye’s height. this is a so much better use for our abilities in communications than using our words to rule or hurt each other.
on eye’s hight we finally stop sucking energy from each other.. and thsts what all the againstness actually is: a big energy-thievery. a behaviour we got used to…
behaviour is: thoughts, words, deeds…
and these three are the ONLY things we can ever completely control ..
IF we start practicing that.
everything else is also connected and dependent to others.
all we need to do to stop it is being love…
think LOVEly
speak LOVEly
act LOVEly
how to practice? (alldays-unit)
deeds follow words following thoughts.
but we can control all o that.
so if we still are used to think “unhealthy”, but know how to think “healthier”, it makes sense to speak out any insight we have. that makes it easier to act the new way, and if we did that just a few times we already gather experience, which feeds our subconscious with new food which makes us think the new way. thats how we can change habbits.
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